We fly 5.8 professionaly and it's awesome cause it's as close to hd any of these will get, it's a wider bandwidth. 1.2 is a bit like an old tv at best, harder to make stuff out like home if you get far or very high.
I prefer the 8" monitors, they have a quick contrast button on front that lets you cycle through contrast settings so if you look at the sun, look away from the sun, get caught in dark, etc.
For 1.2 you will need a bec unless you only fly 3s packs,,,, look at amazon for "buck converter" and a piece of 1" heat shrink from your local hardware or auto store.
yes, you can not use 2.4 video with 2.4 rc control.....
You will want to get a 1.2 low pass filter, goes on the video tx before the antena
i'd get the same stuff, ib crazy ultra bluebeam antennas for both tx and rx. 1.2 does work pretty good with the rubber duck on the aircraft, but they your getting into patch antennas and there useable beam width is really small so you gotta constantly aim the antenna at the aircraft. kind of a pain.