I've got a 550d (T2i) and am starting to use it for AP shortly. You can buy the canon mini usb to video cable known as the AVC - DC 400st (mono version also available).
If modifying it so you have a right angle connector coming out of the camera rather than the standard 400st one which is quite long you have to remember to connect + and - video and then short a 3rd pin to ground otherwise the camera LCD will not switch off and you will not get video out.
For a remote I made one from one of these receiver switches
http://www.hobbyking.com/hobbyking/store/uh_viewItem.asp?idProduct=8833 , a couple of resistors and an NPN 2n2222 transistor. The whole thing cost me well under £10 to make. I made a wiring diagram for it but its probably not the clearest to read!
http://dl.dropbox.com/u/25201190/Canon remote.pdf The LED used is a purple one from memory. Its not for indication as its quite dim anyway but I had to add it as the switch still gives off 3.5v when its off.
If anyone wants to use it please feel free to ask for any further info. Its about 1cm by 2cm so nice and small. I did have one from gentLED before but its burnt out for some reason so I made one as I was in a hurry.
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Another thing well worth looking at with the 550d is the 3rd party Magic Lantern software. I've had it on mine for a year now and its great. So many more options when shooting video, you can also vary the bitrate of movies too which is helpful. Another nice feature is auto restart.
There is a 4gb file limit and when this is reached the camera will stop recording and you cannot restart remotely with the standard canon camera software as the record button is not the shutter release button. But with this software you can set the camera to automatically restart recording when the limit has been reached.
The software is run from the SD card, if you put a normal card in or hold the shutter down half way when starting up it will load without the magic lantern software.
Loads more useful features but that's just a few off of the top of my head, and its free!
http://magiclantern.wikia.com/wiki/Magic_Lantern_Firmware_Wiki